Just different

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When face to face with an entity with a difference, why do most people adopt one of the following attitudes:
a) reverence (or)
b) attempt to find a fraud in it so as to discount the difference ?

Everybody is wierd in his own way.
The trick is to figure out if your wierdness matches with the other guy's wierdness and if not the points of divergence. If both involved can respect those differences, you have the basis for a long term sustained relationship. Imposition rarely works in friendships struck after reaching maturity, especially if the individuals are headstrong and independent.

Wow, I'm preaching...I can start writing a best-seller on relationships, can't I? :-D... a jazzy title for the book is all I need ;-).